Life Lessons & Pregnancy.

 

So i have realized i am not always the brightest bulb in the pack. why do I say this cause i have done things with out thinking and realized that i really should have thought that thru again. I have recently realized there are new rules that have came into play since my wife has been pregnant. things that i never would have thought about before hand. So when a woman becomes pregnant hormones go thru the roof….of a 40 story building. everything is heightened and more touchy. its easier to hurt feelings. words are misunderstood and taken wrong. I am not going to go into super detial with all of these examples. What i am going to do is tell you things that you never should do. One thing i have learned recently is never ever ever rent or watch a love story sappy movie with out expecting her to start crying. Crying whats wrong with that ” AHHH why did you get this!! I’m Crying like a baby NOW MY EYES ARE GOING TO BE PUFFY IN THE MORNING THANKS ALOT!!!” yeah….. don’t do that stick to comedies. The ovbious never talk about weight. you will find that your words seem more harsh and mean when a woman is pregnant or she will think that. i know my wife is great i could say alot and she would never take offense to any of it. Something changes in a woman though no matter how cool they are when not pregnant when they do get pregnant watch your words. i have a simple 12 step process that will help you if you think something or want to say something that might hurt her feelings. or something that she will get mad at you about. so just follow these simple steps.

1. get a pen and paper

2. write your thought down make sure its legible and clear and concise.

3. fold in half and then half again.

4. go to a secluded spot in the woods

5. start a small fire

6. once you are warmed by the fire.  Place all your Feelings, Emotions & the note in the center of the coals

7. once note, feelings & emotions are ash put out fire

8. collect all ashes and put in a coffee can.

9. drive to another state with coffee can.

10. bury the can.

11. go back home forget about everything. 

12. repeat process as many times as necessary (choose different states each time)

MeaD don’t you think these steps are a bit much?! ill tell you what friend I would gladly go thru this each time then to really tick off my wife right now. the stress is not good for Her & the Baby. And think heightened PMS x A Lot when angry. but if you don’t listen to me the first time i understand but the second time i know you will do what i advised. I just really advise this more for her than you my friend. when you are in this awesome situation you really want your wife always in the best state of mind. cause nothing is worse than making her feel like crap she will cry guaranteed. some times she will just cry cause she can. so take my advise don’t hurt her if you can help it. yeah….

-MeaD.

Overloaded.

i have been soo busy lately. with all the damage to the property due to the wind storm i have been put way behind on all my things i want to get done. the storm ripped about 30 some trees down on my property. 11 of those trees you probably couldn’t even rap your arms around them. So my dad has been helping me cut all of the trees up and ive been stacking them and getting ready to sell them. make some cash off of this disaster. So since my dad has been helping me so much i helped him all this past weekend. he is adding on to his house and in the process making a storm cellar. we got it all dug out 12 feet by 13 feet and about 10 feet down. yeah its a big hole we finished up with that this weekend and pored the footers. which means i mixed and poured concrete sunday. and man i am soo freakin sore. in other news since i have been outside so much i have not been inside to do any of the things i need to get done on the nursery. i am still sanding the dry-wall half done with that. i am done with the ceiling it had that popcorn ceiling i don’t know if you know what it is but if you do i am sure you hate it just as much as i do. its that type of ceiling that has the speckled crap of bits of styrofoam and paint. so what i did i scraped the ceiling off and now it just looks like its a textured ceiling which makes it look a whole lot better. but i have maybe another nights work on it then i have to go back over some dry wall joints. Then a final sand after that it should be ready for some primer paint. but yeah there is so much going on right now i have not had much time to do any thing even post on my blog. what not even time for that!! well i am hoping things will start to slow down so i can start back to posting regularly. 

-MeaD.

Sick.

haven’t done a post in a while so just to update you. Yeah so I just got back to work today still not feeling a 100% better have been sick since monday night. but i wasn’t feeling well all day monday. had some kinda sinus infection I’m going to spare you the details. it just sucked a lot caused me to have a constant headache for 3 days straight. but i have a great wife that stayed home with me for two days she took care of me. yeah i got a good one. so im almost better and i still have a ton to do on the farm that i will update you all on later.

-MeaD.