Friendship.

friend·ship [frend-ship] –noun

1. the state of being a friend; association as friends: to value a person’s friendship.
2. a friendly relation or intimacy.
3. friendly feeling or disposition.

when you put it that way i guess there is not much to it. i have little friends or should i say a few. i have some that i could ask for help and they would come. others that would try to help as much as they could as long as it wasn’t really in the way of something there doing. i also have a friend that would drive across the country to help me no matter how dumb it may seem he would do it cause i asked him in a time of need. i know i would do the same as well. its hard to find that kind of a freind these days or any time for that matter its so easy to find a fair-weathered friend as they say. and it the worst feeling to find out that they turn out to be that type of friend too. trust me i have had my fair share of those freinds. Some times its hard to …not ignore it but i guess to acknowledge it. to truly tell some one that they are like a brother or a sister. that they mean alot to you and there friendship means more than words can discribe cause they have been there when your flat on your face. you have been there when they are flat on there face. and when that time comes your there even if its in another state you or they are there to help them or you up. and letting the one realize that they are going to be fine they/you have been thourgh worse and there will be worser days ahead and you/they will be there. its hard to find i guess thats all i am really trying to say. its hard to find a true friend. I just found out my true best friend is going to into the Air Force. Its scary to think of him getting into service during a time like we are living in now. The thing is being a good friend in my opinion  is never just telling some one what they should do. you have to let them make the decision for them selves the only thing you can do as a good friend is to make sure they know all the options for both choices. My friend had made a list of all the pros and cons and this seems to be the best bet for him. i hope to god it is. I know he is not one to make quick and irrational decisions. its just a lot to take in when you find out these kind of things. Its just something that has been on my mind the past few days.

My prayers are with you greg.

-MeaD.

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