So I’m having a kid which means I’m going to be a DaD. It really just makes me wonder what kind of DaD I’m going to be. Its kinda scary right now trying to think that I’m am going to be responsible for a little things life. Well half responsible. I know there are always those people that are like “when i have my kids I’m not going to be like my parents. I’m going to be better.” well quite honestly my parents did a damn good job. i hope i can be like them. Then only thing I really want to do is be one of those DaD’s that play a lot with the kid. I know I won’t be the kinda dad the forces the kids to play sports. Due to the fact that i never played so i don’t talk about the big game my senior year like it was the pinnacle of my life. So its just so much to think about me being a father. Its just thinking about will i do the right things to make the kid grow into a good person. I’m not horribly worried if I’m going to be a good DaD. All you need to do for that is love the kid no matter what and the whole no beating it thing too. There’s another thing too i really don’t want to be the dad where the kid fears me. I know someone fear you HA! well i don’t want to have my child fear me but at the same time you have to have respect. My dad always told me you Demand respect from a kid to earn there respect when there older. I think that holds a lot of weight too. I’m not going to lie there were times where i was scared to death of my father. I just want to kinda be that DaD where the kid can come to me if something is wrong. i dunno its just a lot to take in all at once. I guess its the fathers-to-be that don’t worry about it that need to worry about it. and the ones that worry about it are the ones that don’t need to worry about it. i think I’m in that “don’t need to worry” bracket. i think since i care i’m doing something right and the kid isn’t even born yet.
-MeaD.
